#Relationship

23 strategies tagged with Relationship

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S230 Prevent

Use proactive relationship ‘micro-moments’ (brief, genuine connection)

Increase cooperation and reduce perceived hostility by banking trust outside conflict moments.

S232 Prevent

Teach ‘re-entry’ routine after absence or removal (fresh start protocol)

Reduce repeat incidents by giving pupils a clear, dignified route back into learning.

S201 Repair & Rebuild

Connect then correct (brief repair after correction)

Prevent resentment and ‘teacher hates me’ narratives after a boundary.

S202 Repair & Rebuild

Restorative micro-conversation (3 questions)

Repair harm and restore learning relationships quickly.

S204 Repair & Rebuild

Re-entry script (fresh start + first step)

Reintegrate pupils positively after conflict or sanction.

S205 Repair & Rebuild

Relationship banking (planned positive micro-interactions)

Build trust so corrections land without escalation.

S207 Repair & Rebuild

Adult repair (when we got it wrong)

Model respect and reduce ongoing conflict after a teacher misstep.

S208 Repair & Rebuild

Home–school communication (partnership framing)

Reduce repeat issues by aligning adults and avoiding blame narratives.

S211 Repair & Rebuild

Brief reflection prompts (forward-looking)

Help pupils learn from incidents without shame.

S214 Repair & Rebuild

Restitution menu (practical repair options)

Make repair concrete so restoration isn’t just ‘say sorry’.

S215 Repair & Rebuild

Reframe identity (separate pupil from behaviour)

Stop pupils internalising ‘I’m bad / teacher hates me’ after correction.

S236 Repair & Rebuild

Two-minute re-entry plan (after removal / buddy room)

Re-establish a calm working relationship and a clear first step so the student can rejoin learning without a ‘fresh conflict’.

S237 Repair & Rebuild

Close the loop (end the episode cleanly)

Prevent grudges and ‘carry-over’ by explicitly signalling that the incident is finished and the relationship is intact.

S240 Repair & Rebuild

Repair the public narrative (private praise after public correction)

Protect dignity and relationship by ensuring the pupil experiences positive attention soon after being corrected.

S241 Repair & Rebuild

Brief restorative at the door (60–90 seconds)

Rebuild trust and clarify expectations without creating dependency on long conversations.

S242 Repair & Rebuild

Restorative conference (teacher + pupil + affected peer)

Repair harm, reduce retaliation, and prevent recurring peer conflict from spilling back into lessons.

S245 Repair & Rebuild

Re-entry ‘fresh start’ greeting (reset the relationship)

Signal belonging and reduce ‘pre-loading’ conflict by greeting positively after an incident.

S246 Repair & Rebuild

Repair contract (one-page ‘next time’ agreement)

Create shared clarity on what will happen next time, reducing argument and ambiguity for repeat issues.

S248 Repair & Rebuild

Positive home contact after a reset (48-hour window)

Strengthen partnership and reduce the ‘only ever bad news’ narrative that fuels resentment and disengagement.

S251 Repair & Rebuild

Defer the debate, then follow through (private resolution)

Avoid power struggles by postponing discussion, then genuinely resolving it later so pupils trust the boundary.

S252 Repair & Rebuild

Apology + restitution choices (repair without humiliation)

Teach accountability with a dignified route back that doesn’t become a public ‘grovel’.

S253 Repair & Rebuild

Micro-mentoring check-in (5 minutes weekly)

Stabilise behaviour by giving a predictable adult connection and a simple goal review loop.

S255 Repair & Rebuild

Repair wording: ‘behaviour is the problem, you are not’

Reduce identity-based conflict by explicitly separating the pupil from the behaviour while holding firm boundaries.

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