Brief reflection prompts (forward-looking)
Aim (what it achieves)
Help pupils learn from incidents without shame.
When to use
During break DT / end of lesson / pastoral check-in after repeated low-level issues.
How to use (steps)
Teacher language (examples)
“Next time I will…” (complete the sentence)
Top tips (makes it work)
Keep it short; emphasise future plan; follow up next lesson.
Common pitfalls
Long written reflections; focusing on blame; using it as punishment work.
SEND/PP considerations
For SEND/PP, offer sentence stems and allow verbal reflection if writing is a barrier.
Tags
Sources
Used in
Behaviour Matrix
- Repair & Rebuild Slow starts / dawdling transitions
- Repair & Rebuild Attention seeking / clowning / minor disruption
- Repair & Rebuild Disorganisation / missing equipment / dead time
Related strategies
Home–school communication (partnership framing)
Reduce repeat issues by aligning adults and avoiding blame narratives.
Connect then correct (brief repair after correction)
Prevent resentment and ‘teacher hates me’ narratives after a boundary.
Restorative micro-conversation (3 questions)
Repair harm and restore learning relationships quickly.
Re-entry script (fresh start + first step)
Reintegrate pupils positively after conflict or sanction.
Relationship banking (planned positive micro-interactions)
Build trust so corrections land without escalation.
Collaborative problem solving (Plan B meeting)
Solve recurring problems by identifying triggers and lagging skills.