S095 Repair & Rebuild

Brief restorative at the door (60–90 seconds)

Aim (what it achieves)

Rebuild trust and clarify expectations without creating dependency on long conversations.

When to use

When low-level disruption happened but you want to prevent a repeat next lesson; particularly for recurring friction with the same student.

How to use (steps)

1) Start with belonging: ‘I’m glad you’re here.’ 2) Name the behaviour briefly. 3) Ask one forward-looking question. 4) Agree one concrete action. 5) End warm and short.

Teacher language (examples)

“I’m glad you’re here. Last lesson we lost time with (behaviour). What will you do differently today?” “Good — that’s the plan. Go in and start.”

Top tips (makes it work)

Do it routinely; stay calm; don’t try to solve everything at the doorway; one target only.

Common pitfalls

Dragging it out; doing it as a public performance; demanding an apology as the entry ticket.

SEND/PP considerations

Works well for students who need predictable boundaries and quick reconnection. Keep language simple; avoid abstract ‘respect’ lectures.

Useful for these SEND needs

Why this strategy helps

  • Restores trust and readiness after incidents.
  • Supports regulation and relational safety.
  • Clarifies language and participation pathways.

Universal SEND-friendly: Yes

SEND-targeted: Yes

Tags

Vulnerability

May be especially relevant for:

Sources

  • Restorative practice (general)
  • practice-based

Used in

Common Behaviour Issues (Behaviour Hub)

  • Repair & Rebuild Low-level defiance / arguing / 'No' (mild)
  • Repair & Rebuild Peer friction / bickering / low-level conflict
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